SoulFiire After Dark · For adults 18+
Make room for
what turns you on.
A little curiosity. A little courage. A lot of room to be yourself.
Welcome to the more intimate side of SoulFiire—a space for women exploring pleasure, desire, relationships, and the connections they want to create. Come with questions, an adventurous streak, or simply an interest in knowing what feels good to you.
Your interests. Your boundaries. Your pace.
Marlene Riggs · Master Sexpert Certification & Certified Love Coach
Loveology University · Relationship and intimacy coaching for adults 18+
Curious is a perfectly good place to start
Honest conversations.
A little more spark.
You might want to explore your preferences, talk more openly with a partner, enjoy sensuality on your own, or bring more playfulness into everyday life. There is room for all of it here. You bring the questions; we can skip the awkward whispering.
01 · CURIOSITY
What feels good to you?
Make space for your interests, your changing preferences, and the experiences you would enjoy exploring. Pleasure can be quiet, playful, sensual, or wonderfully ordinary.
02 · CONNECTION
Say the thing.
Explore honest communication about affection, intimacy, and desire. Learn to ask, listen, and make room for different preferences—with consent and mutual respect at the center.
03 · CONFIDENCE
Choose your own yes.
Get clearer about what you welcome, what you are curious about, and where your boundaries are. You can be open to possibilities and particular about what you choose.
Online courses · In development
Learn a little.
Explore a lot.
Courses with Marlene bring relationship and intimacy education into everyday life through clear guidance, reflection, and practical exercises. Say the Thing is available now; the other courses below are in development.
Available now · Communication · $29
Say the Thing:
Talking About Intimacy
Explore how to share preferences, ask for affection, discuss desire, and listen with curiosity. Practice conversations that make room for honesty, clear boundaries, and a genuine yes or no.
Includes six written lessons, conversation scripts, private exercises, and an 18-page printable workbook.
View Course & Enroll · $29
Coming soon · Pleasure & self-knowledge
Pleasure on
Your Terms
Get curious about what you enjoy, the beliefs shaping your choices, and the experiences you would like to welcome. Explore sensuality, comfort, and everyday pleasure at your own pace.
Planned companion: a pleasure preferences journal and a personal yes/no/maybe guide.
Coming soon · Relationship connection
Come Closer:
Connection in Real Life
Make room for affection, shared attention, and playfulness in a busy relationship. Explore differences in preferences and build small rituals that feel welcome to both of you.
Planned companion: a connection menu and date-night conversation cards.
Coming soon · Dating & personal choice
Dating on
Your Terms
Explore what you want from dating, how to communicate it, and how to choose a pace that suits you. Includes space for dating after divorce, new possibilities, and changing relationship priorities.
Planned companion: a dating values workbook and boundaries checklist.
Professional training. Personal perspective.
Marlene holds a Master Sexpert Certification and is a Certified Love Coach through Loveology University. Her approach brings together relationship and intimacy education, the SoulFiire Four Pillars, and lived experience of relationships, change, and learning what matters.
Expect thoughtful guidance, honest reflection, and a little humor. You choose what fits your life.
Companion resources · Planned
A little guidance
to take with you.
Let’s Talk About It
A planned guide with conversation starters for preferences, affection, boundaries, and relationship check-ins.
Your Pleasure Notes
A planned printable journal for noticing what you enjoy and exploring Mind, Body, Heart, and Spirit.
A Little More Us
Planned connection cards with simple invitations for shared attention, laughter, and mutually welcome closeness.
The Four Pillars, with the lights turned low
Whole-person connection.
Mind. Body. Heart. Spirit.
Intimacy can involve thoughts, sensations, emotions, and meaning. The Four Pillars offer room to explore each of those experiences on your own terms.
Mind
Bring curiosity to your beliefs, expectations, and the stories you have heard about pleasure and relationships.
Body
Notice comfort, sensation, and preferences. Explore what feels welcome, with attention to your own pace.
Heart
Make room for feelings, affection, vulnerability, and communication that supports mutually wanted connection.
Spirit
Let your values, personal meaning, and sense of self guide the experiences and relationships you choose.
Choose what interests you
A conversation.
A little ritual. Your choice.
Make space to talk
After Dark coaching focuses specifically on relationships and intimacy: communication, desire, affection, personal preferences, and boundaries. Choose a private one-on-one session or thoughtful guidance by email.
One-on-one: $95 for 60 minutes. Email coaching: $79 per 30 days. Curiosity is welcome.
View After Dark coaching & pricingBring After Dark home
Explore the SoulFiire After Dark collection from Inspirit: candles and mugs with a little attitude and a lot of personality. Choose something that makes you smile or sets the mood for a moment you enjoy.
Yes, your coffee can have a bold side, too.
Shop the After Dark collectionRoom for your yes—and your no. Every invitation here leaves room for personal choice, clear boundaries, and mutually welcome connection. You decide what you want to explore.
A few things you might be wondering
Let’s get comfortable.
Do I need to be in a relationship?
No. After Dark welcomes women exploring their own preferences as well as those interested in connection with a partner. Your relationship status does not determine whether curiosity belongs here.
Is After Dark only about sex?
It includes conversations about sexuality and intimacy, alongside sensuality, affection, communication, playfulness, and everyday pleasure. You can begin with whichever topic interests you.
What if I just have a question?
That is a good place to begin. Explore the After Dark coaching and pricing options to learn about working with Marlene, or visit the Journal for thoughtful reflections you can read at your own pace.
Who is this page for?
SoulFiire After Dark is for adults 18+, with a focus on women’s experiences of pleasure, desire, and connection. Respect for different preferences and personal boundaries is part of the conversation.
You are the fire
Curious? Come closer.
Make room for a question, an honest conversation, or an experience you would enjoy. There is space to explore what lights you up.
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