About Course
SoulFiire After Dark · Adults 18+
Make room for what lights you up—and learn to put it into words. Say the Thing is a practical, self-paced introduction to conversations about affection, desire, preferences, and boundaries. You can explore the lessons on your own, whether you are single, dating, or in a relationship.
Across six written lessons, you will clarify what you want to discuss, choose a useful time to talk, turn a vague wish into a clear request, listen without assuming, express a boundary, and plan a thoughtful follow-up. The printable workbook includes everyday examples, conversation scripts, private reflection prompts, and a connection check-in.
Expect warmth, direct language, and a little humor. There are no required intimate disclosures or partner activities. Adapt the examples to your own voice and skip any exercise you do not want to complete.
Your educator
Marlene Riggs holds a Master Sexpert Certification and is a Certified Love Coach through Loveology University. Her approach combines relationship and intimacy education with the SoulFiire Four Pillars: Mind, Body, Heart, and Spirit.
Format
Six written lessons plus a downloadable workbook. Allow approximately 60–90 minutes for reading and initial exercises, with extra time for reflection or conversations if you choose.
This course offers education and communication practice. It does not require you to start a conversation that feels unsafe, and it is not therapy or medical care.
Love it. Live it. Share it.
Course Content
Say the Thing: Six steps to a more honest conversation
1. Start with yourself: What would you like more of?
2. Open the door: Choose a time and ask to talk
3. Say what you mean: Turn a wish into a request
4. Listen for the person: Different preferences can share a conversation
5. Your yes and your no: Boundaries without an apology tour
6. Keep the conversation open: A small connection plan
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